Search For: wife
Cross Check These Results at: Google | Yahoo | Bing | Ask
Resulted in: 720 - 740 of about 778
Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 367
367. VI. THAT THE ZEAL OF CONJUGIAL LOVE IS CALLED JEALOUSY. The zeal for love truly conjugial is the zeal of zeals inasmuch as the love is the love of loves, and its delights, for which also it is zealous, the delights of delights; for, as shown above [no. 64], that love is the chief of all loves. The reason is because that love induces on the wife the form of love, and on the husband the form of...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=367 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 372
372. It was said that in conjugial love is implanted fear lest it be divided, and grief lest it perish; and that its zeal is like fire directed against violation. Once, when meditating upon this, I asked certain zealous angels respecting the seat of jealousy. They said: "It is in the understanding of the man who receives the love of his partner and loves her in return, and its quality there i...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=372 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 375
375. Moreover, in certain regions there are families which labor under the sickness of jealousy more than others. By them Wives are imprisoned, tyrannically withheld from converse with men, shut off from the sight of them by windows provided with lattices stretching [from top] to bottom, and are terrified by threats of death if the husband find reason for the suspicion he nurses; besides other har...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=375 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 384
384. After him arose the third orator, and he spoke out as follows: Not love alone, nor wisdom alone, is the origin of beauty, but the union of love and wisdom--the union of love with wisdom in the young man, and the union of wisdom with its love in the maiden; for a maiden does not love wisdom in herself but in a young man, it being from this that she sees him as beauty; and when a young man sees...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=384 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 393
393. VI. THAT THIS SPHERE AFFECTS THE FEMALE SEX, THUS MOTHERS, PRINCIPALLY, AND THE MALE SEX, OR FATHERS, FROM THEM. This is a consequence due to the same origin that was previously spoken of [no. 222], namely, that the sphere of conjugial love is received by women, and through women is transferred to men, and this because women are born loves of the understanding of men and the understanding is...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=393 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 403
403. XIV. THAT WIVES HAVE ONE STATE OF LOVE BEFORE CONCEPTION, AND ANOTHER AFTER IT UP TO THE BIRTH. This is adduced, to the end that it may be known that in the conjugial love with women, is implanted the love of procreating and the consequent love of that which is procreated; and that, when the end which is the love of procreating, commences its progression, these two loves in her are divided. T...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=403 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 411
411. XX. THAT UNDER THE LORD'S AUSPICES, INFANTS ARE EDUCATED BY THEM AND GROW IN STATURE AND INTELLIGENCE AS IN THE WORLD. Infants in heaven are educated in the following manner: From their instructress, they learn to speak. Their first speech is merely the sound of affection, wherein, however, is some initiament of thought, and from which what is human in the sound is distinguished from the soun...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=411 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 413
413. XXI. THAT IT IS THERE PROVIDED BY THE LORD THAT THE INNOCENCE OF INFANCY WITH INFANTS BECOME THE INNOCENCE OF WISDOM. Many may think that infants remain infants and become angels immediately after death. But it is intelligence and wisdom that make an angel, and therefore, so long as infants do not have these, they are indeed with the angels but are not angels. They first become angels when th...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=413 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 445
445. I. THAT FORNICATION BELONGS TO LOVE OF THE SEX. It is said that fornication belongs to love of the sex because fornication is not love of the sex but is from it. Love of the sex is as a fountain from which can be derived both conjugial love and scortatory; and they can be derived therefrom through fornication and without it. Love of the sex is within every man, and it either does or does not...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=445 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 450
450. V. THAT WITH SOME MEN, LOVE OF THE SEX CANNOT WITHOUT HARMFUL RESULTS BE TOTALLY RESTRAINED FROM GOING FORTH INTO FORNICATION. It were vain to recount the harmful results which excessive repression of love of the sex may cause and effect with those who from superabundance labor with burning heat. With such men, this gives rise to certain diseases of the body and sicknesses of the mind, to say...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=450 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 467
467. V. THAT CONCUBINAGE IN SEPARATION FROM THE WIFE, WHEN ENGAGED IN FROM CAUSES LEGITIMATE, JUST, AND TRULY WEIGHTY, IS NOT UNLAWFUL. What causes are meant by legitimate, by just, and by truly weighty, will be stated in their order. Here a bare mention of the causes is premised, that the concubinage to be treated of in what now follows may be distinguished from the former concubinage.
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=467 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 473
473. There are also milder causes which are real weighty causes and separate from the bed though not from the home, such as the cessation of childbearing with the wife due to the feebleness of advanced age, and hence a non-tolerance and refusal of actual love, while ardor still continues with the man; besides other like causes in which the rational judgment sees what is just, and which do not hurt...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=473 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 476
476. XII. THAT WHILE THIS CONCUBINAGE CONTINUES, ACTUAL CONJUNCTION WITH THE WIFE IS NOT LAWFUL. The reason is because in such case conjugial love, which in itself is spiritual, chaste, pure and holy, becomes natural, is contaminated and worn out, and thus perishes. Wherefore, that this love may be preserved, it is expedient that concubinage from really weighty causes (nos. 472, 473) be with one o...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=476 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 481
481. That more may be learned as to the nature of the grossness of the present age where wise men see nothing of sin in adultery, as disclosed above (no. 478) by angels, I will add the following Memorable Relation: There were certain spirits who, from habit acquired in the life of the body, infested me with peculiar skill. They did this by an influx somewhat gentle like a kind of undula...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=481 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 483
483. To this I will add something worthy of mention from the spiritual world:* I have heard that some married men have the lust of committing whoredom, some with undeflowered women or virgins, some with deflowered women or harlots, some with married women or wives, some with women of noble stock, and some with women not of noble stock. That such is the case has been confirmed for me by many instan...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=483 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 494
494. XIV. THAT ADULTERIES OF THE THIRD AND FOURTH DEGREE, WHETHER COMMITTED IN ACT OR NOT, ARE EVILS OF SIN ACCORDING TO THE MEASURE AND QUALITY OF THE UNDERSTANDING AND WILL WITHIN THEM. That adulteries from reason or understanding, being those of the third degree, and adulteries from the will, being those of the fourth degree, are grievous and so are evils of sin according to the quality of the...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=494 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 502
502. I. THE STATE OF A VIRGIN OR UNDEFLOWERED WOMAN BEFORE MARRIAGE AND AFTER MARRIAGE. What the state of a virgin is before she has been instructed concerning the various particulars of the conjugial torch, was made manifest to me by wives in the spiritual world, being women who had departed from the natural world in their infancy and had been educated in heaven. They said that when they came to...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=502 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 510
510. IV. THAT THEIR LOT AFTER DEATH IS A MISERABLE ONE BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT THE INMOST OF LIFE. Every one has pre-eminence of life according to his conjugial love; for this life conjoins itself with the life of the wife, and by the conjunction exalts itself. But because with these men not the least remnant of conjugial love is left, and hence nothing of the inmost of life, therefore their lot aft...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=510 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 511
511. THE LUST OF VIOLATION By the lust of violation is not meant the lust of defloration. The latter lust is the violation of virginities, but not the violation of virgins when done without their consent;* but the lust of violation here treated of recedes in consequence of consent, and is sharpened by refusal. It is a burning desire to violate any woman, whether virgin, widow, or wife, who a...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=511 Wisdom's Delight in Marriage Love: Followed by Insanity’s Pleasure in Promiscuous Love 531
531. VI. THAT IN THE SAME WAY CONJUGIAL LOVE IS IMPUTED TO EACH MAN. There are marriages in which there is no appearance of conjugial love, and yet it is there, and there are marriages in which there is an appearance of conjugial love, and yet it is not there. The reasons in both cases are many and can be learned in part from what has been treated of in the chapters on Love truly Conjugial (nos. 5...
http://www.smallcanonsearch.com/read.php?book=ml§ion=531
MORE RESULTS:
27 | 28 | 29 | 30 | 31 | 32 | 33 | 34 | 35 | 36 | 37
| 38 | 39
|
